What do couples need most?
Love, support, connection, communication. Why settle for a relationship that’s just going along when you could be in something that is what you’ve ever wanted? Warm, loving, sexy, honest intimate relationships are the ones that last. Imagine being with someone you love and desire and feel connected to every single day or your life?
I get couples back on track. More than that, I get them back in to connection, warmth, having fun, becoming the life partners they’ve always wanted and always wanted to be. Open, easy, actively-connected relationships are what I help support and promote and I will guide you and coach you in how to understand and accept the past – however painful – and move on in to the supportive and intimate relationship you have always wanted. I see my role as Lucy Love Coach as being supportive, empathetic and helpful – I facilitate the relationship between the couple to be paid some attention. In many ways, it is the relationship between the two people that is the client. It is a safe place in which the couple, with my support, can have the space to work through whatever they need to.
I am here to help couples explore areas that may be difficult
The work/life balance, self-esteem issues individually and within a couple relationship, family issues, sex, money, all the big stumbling blocks we face, all the other myriad areas than can trigger deep responses within ourselves that then come to the fore in our relationships.
I work in whatever way the couple finds more comfortable. I am led by the couple, not by an abiding overriding therapeutic model. I work within the remits and boundaries that the couple agree on so that everyone in the room feels safe and valid.
I not only help support couples in difficult times but also am happy to work with couples who want some help with how to maintain their relationship and nourish each other. As one client said to me, “we are surviving not flourishing.” He came to me with his wife because they were committed to finding more energy and warmth in their relationship – to flourish, in fact.
In my practice, I have helped support couples in many ways – some want to look at a particular issue, some want a space in which to look at problems in their relationship in a more general way. Some wish to look at specific areas of potential conflict and general misunderstandings between them and communication is always a key issue.
But what everyone wants is to have the warm, loving, honest, connected intimate relationship they have craved for so long. When I see couples reconnect it’s a magical thing. The person you need and want is the person you are with. We all just need to find this and move forwards in to a great relationship rather than just a good one. It’s not easy. It takes work but I am here to coach you and get you both to a full partnership in all senses.